March 10, 2012

BeTaPa BeRaT MaTa MeManDanG BeRaT LaGi BaHu YanG MeMiKuL 2

Sambungan 

Sebagai seorang guru saya sedikit sebanyak
mengetahui kisah yang dialami oleh pelajar 
melalui penulisan mereka samada
sewaktu membuat latihan mahupun peperiksaan.
Saya juga tahu kalau cerita yang mereka tulis itu hanya 
rekaan atau pun kisah benar.

Sewaktu membaca dan menanda kertas jawapan peperiksaan
 anak kawan saya baru2 ini, saya tiba2 jadi sebak dan 
tak semena-mena airmata saya keluar tanpa dapat ditahan2.

Tajuk karangan "Family"

Saya petik sebahagian esei yang ditulisnya tanpa edit.

"My dad always got mad all the time. That's why I am not close with him.
We seldom talk. He was like a stranger to me. Sometimes when we had
dinner together, the situation is just like I am reading a history book- so
boring! But seriously, I think there is nothing important to talk about
with him. Nevertheless, I had ideas about sharing something, I already
knew that he would not be interested to listen. So, that's what happened
between my dad and I.

"....I remember the year I was sitting for PMR, both mom and dad always 
argued about something. Just like cats and dogs. And things frightened me
more when my dad always hit my mom in her face and body.  It was a great 
pain to see mom's suffering. I knew my dad was in a relationship with someone.  A widow with three sons. Ah! I was like, what's so special about
her? Starting from that day, we were no longer a happy family."

"....I know everything has changed, but for me, life must go on. No matter what challenges us, we must face them. I want my mom to be happy and I know she would be happy without dad..she suffered a lot.  For me, this is a new beginning of a new life. One thing that keeps lingering on my mind is,
why can't I have a father who is  loving and caring like everybody else's?.."


Ibunya menangis sewaktu membaca karangan ini
tanpa pemgetahuan anaknya.Smiley



10 comments:

Deru Ombak said...

Not every children are lucky..
But.. Children must remember, a woman called mother can do a lot of wonders to let her children happy and success in life.
A man called father, who is irresponsible towards the family is no longer we call him the head of family.

To your student Cikgu. What he thought that his mother will be much happier without dad is very true when circumstances do the separation happen. It is hard, even hurts so much, but relief is there..

Mr.Clive said...

the impact on the children as a result from the argument between daddy and mummy can seriously affect them on the long run. it will develop a trauma and fear.

jadi,kepada sesiap yang jadi parents dan parents-to-be,ingat2 la anak anak tu...

Gen2Merah said...

sebak plak nak membacanya.. mmg sedih.. betapa tabahnya anak menghadapi liku2 kehidupan keluarga yang macam tu....

mMoOnN aAlLeEaA said...

sedih lea baca kak. budak sekolah kena menghadapi keadaan mcm tu

Shafiq said...

Sad.. really sad..

ANISA said...

inspiring...hope that kid will be better...

anisalya said...

dia tak tahu nak luahkan pada siapa. emlalui penulisan dia mampu berkata sejujurnya.

♕ Mr.IX ♂ said...

good english but not really fortunate story...

Persoalan: "kenapa nak ada affair janda anak 3 kalau ada isteri anak 1 pun tak reti jaga."

LadyBird said...

kesiannye.. kerana bapa yg pntgkan diri.. anak yang tidak tahu ape2 menjadi mangsa.. kejamnye ayh mcmni.. meragut jiwa sang anak scr tidak langsung.. :(

ellynadyra said...

very sincere written

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